Trainmans daughter
OBS Chief
Up until the last couple of years, my mother-in-law and her sister would take the train to visit each other - Chico to Oxnard. Recently, it has become too hard for them to do this, as they both have mobility issues now.
In October, my granddaughter and I are planning a to take mom-in-oaw on this trip. We can help her on and off, get her meals, even help her up to the SSL during a fresh air stop if she wants.
The thing I'm concerned about is that granddaughter and I will be taking up seats in the lower level coach that might be needed by disabled passengers. That seems selfish of us. We could get seats on the upper level and keep going downstairs to check on Mom, but she might feel we've dumped her down there.
What is the right thing to do?
In October, my granddaughter and I are planning a to take mom-in-oaw on this trip. We can help her on and off, get her meals, even help her up to the SSL during a fresh air stop if she wants.
The thing I'm concerned about is that granddaughter and I will be taking up seats in the lower level coach that might be needed by disabled passengers. That seems selfish of us. We could get seats on the upper level and keep going downstairs to check on Mom, but she might feel we've dumped her down there.
What is the right thing to do?