That truck "driver" was a wonderful friend and loved by many. You idiots posting about this accident have no clue how his family and friends are feeling/doing at this very moment. That driver was my husbands best friend. Shame on you ugly, heartless people.
I am sorry for your loss. This kind of thing happens all too often, if you want, go through past pages and see how often trains hit cars and trucks. The media never reports this, just telling you what happens locally, so most people do not understand the frequency of these accidents.
Once you have been able to get over your grief a little bit, realize that his family and friends are not the only one scarred by this. So, too, will the engineer and conductor aboard this train. I have a close friend, who worked for CSX (now retired) as an engineer, and the worst day of his life was when he hit a kid playing "chicken" on the tracks. There was nothing he could have done, and years after accident, it still affects him.
Perhaps in time, you and your friends can get together and create some kind of track safety organization in your area, in honor of the man we lost. I personally believe this is an underrated issue in our country: track safety. More people are hit then anyone realizes. I came to this board a few months ago when planning a trip, in that time I have been stunned by the amount of accidents that "really: happen. It is alarming.
Everyone grieves differently, and I will not get on your case for the way you reacted. I wish you the best.