IndyLions (hello from a born and raised Hoosier!), the info about dining car economics and room service is very helpful, thank you.
A gentle plea for compassion in our sharing:
For a much larger percentage of the population than people realize, different brain biology (aka neurodiversity) causes things like communal dining to be a nightmare.
Personally, I'm cursed with a neurological condition (misophonia) that makes certain sounds (chewing, crunching and smacking are most common) a living hell to be around. It's not a matter of "tuning it out" - it's how our brains are wired and it can take months or years of therapy most people can't afford to learn adequate coping skills.
Others may be tormented by situations where they are forced to truly interact with strangers as one would be at a 4-person communal table. You never know might be taking a big step by just being on a train journey at all.
It's not a matter of "big boy pants" for many, and an encouraging approach works better for all populations.
Thanks for listening,
Bash (looking forward to room service on my Zephyr trip
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