I appreciate the feedback and, after reading all the other comments, I am encouraged.
I read something yesterday that said the meal changes effective in 2020 have put a free glass of wine back on the dinner menu for travelers in sleeper cars.
I found some more updated photos of the superliner bedroom, and I believe it would be roomy enough for me and the misses.
I had seen some photos elsewhere (pinterest?) where the toilet was immediately adjacent to the seat in the cabin - EEW!
But then I found superliner bedroom photos that show a separate fully-enclosed toilet/shower combination, with a sink/mirror/cabinet/ledge on the exterior, and a cubby to hang jackets.
I'm hoping the latter is the correct configuration (seems to match up to the room diagram on the amtrak site)
I'm not that tall, although I am pretty wide
, but the wife is very petite, and I think we could actually sit facing each other, and play cards on the fold down table during our trip.
(We love to play rummy when we travel, even though I think she cheats when she can) !
I'm not sure if we could both fit comfortably in the lower bunk, but I'm not opposed to squeezing into the upper, to make it more comfortable for her.
Thanks again, to everyone, for the informative and welcoming comments. I hope to continue chatting with you all on these forums as I search for more knowledge!
Are there instructions on how to enter a nickname in place of my email name?, and on how to replace my E with a photo or avatar ??
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