My horror stories has to deal with dining car companions. Most of my meals I was seated with pleasant people who understood the main idea was to eat, so they weren't too chatty besides, 'hi I am so and so from somewhere heading there' type of chatting. I like to look out the window at the sights while dining. Not really into chatting, following a conversation. If someone is talking to you, I feel it is ill of you to ignore them.
One time I was seated next to someone who didn't understand the unwritten rule that on a seat for two, you should take up one half of it, not two thirds. I sat with a portion of my backside off the seat.
Another time a woman had to tell me her life story in between bites of food. Like I said, I had to pay attention to her words. But when she went outside for a smoking break, I gobbled the rest of my food and dessert and left before she came back on board to finish her meal.
And file this under lesson learnt. My first trip on the Star, I ordered my tickets over the phone. I was advised when going to the dining car, not to leave any valuables in the sleeper compartment. I carry with me a laptop and maybe a 1/2 dozen different sorts of digital cameras, camcorders, etc. The person in the sleeper across the way was also a newbie. Me being too nice, I suggested to him, while one person is in the dining car, the other should be in the sleeper keeping an eye to make sure no one is stealing anything from the other compartment. I decided to let him go first, me being nice. Well, he took his time, couldn't care less that I was waiting to eat. That was also the last time I suggested to do something like this on that trip or future trips.
Bruce-SSR