My experiences seem to differ a bit with yours, including on my most recent trip on the CL and the LSL. On both trips the attendants brought my suitcase to the door prior to arriving at the final stop and then off loaded them first, before letting the passengers detrain. On the Capitol LTD, I did see the attendant cleaning one bathroom and I have to say that the other's at no time ever looked terrible. The shower on the LSL was quite clean, and I could tell that other's had used it, as there were plenty of dirty towels in the bag. Oddly enough though on the CL the shower must have been missed by the attendant as there were almost a dozen used bars of soap in the shower.I would say that of the Sleepers I have been in the past two years that most have had pretty good service. One on the Empire Builder had a trainee which seemed to give the regular attendant an excuse to disappear the whole trip. I am afraid its just a sign of the times that service is no longer considered a fact of life with first class or sleeper travel. Considering the way people today avoid doing anything they don't want too, it seems that the majority of sleeping car attendants give it a pretty good try. I will say that the ones that give anything resembling old fashioned Pullman type service is a real rarity. Normally you get bare bones service.. Making the bed, some keeping the coffee urn filled. Its a rare attendant that offers you something or ask if you want something any more. I get particularly aggravated at those that take the stack of morning papers and just toss them on top of the trash can in the hall. Some will put it on your seat as they indeed should, or if they don't have too, its a least a slight feeling of someone trying to do some token bit of service. That seems to be about it now. Gone is the shoe shine which used to happen every night in the old days: Taking charge of your luggage boarding and detraining: Asking if you wished something from the diner such as soda brought to your room; Seeing that the restrooms and and car remained spotless; Brushing off you off, literally on detraining; and just plain acting like they are there to be of service should you wish some.. Usually after the beds are made most attendants seem to disappear!
And on the LSL, where food isn't available after ALB, my attendant brought everyone in our car a plate full of grapes left over from the wine tasting the night before. I don't know if the other two attendants did that, or even if the crew in the Diner-Lite car did the prep work, but I thought that was a very nice touch and it helped keep the hunger pangs at bay for a bit longer.
Papers on both trains were slid under my door very early in the morning.
Now again, I'm not suggesting that all of the attendants out there are angels, there are clearly some that need to be retrained and some that just need to be let go. But there are many really good ones out there riding the rails.