It is partly exposure to stories such as the above that have almost totally sapped my sympathy for whomever is trespassing at the time. Put plainly, the experience is traumatic for the crew (as a rule; I know at least one crew member who was ex-military and I think they'd already "seen enough" so it didn't affect them, but such is the range of human experience). They have my sympathy.
With a sort of narrow exception (essentially the "car broke down at the worst possible moment and you've got a kid in a carseat so you can't get clear"), you generally have two categories to deal with: Suicides and Darwin candidates. Neither are deserving of any particular sympathy. Any sympathy I might have had for them evaporates when they go off and do this. To be clear, if I decide to go absent-mindedly walking down the tracks or try to beat a train, I'm deserving of the same mockery and lack of sympathy, full stop. If a friend does it, you can expect a very salty handling of the situation from me. Frankly, I think any outpouring of sympathy is (if anything) counterproductive. Please note that I think I've indicated that a thorough thrashing of folks causing "grade crossing incidents" would be healthy for some time, and I'm going to double down on that (and add that if the driver survives but a passenger dies, barring that narrow exception above I think manslaughter charges are appropriate).
Also, for the record, I've had to deal with several suicides in my family's social circle over the years. At this stage I suspect that if they did it by train, my reaction would go from "Oh, crap..." to "Oh, come on, are you kidding me?" And I don't think such shift in reaction is unreasonable, based on what I've seen as a result of this sort of thing over the years (e.g. the roughly monthly disruptions to Brightline, the harm to the crews, and so on and so forth). My reaction to a "grade crossing incident" is also likely to be a strange mix of mourning and annoyance at "How [bleep]ing stupid could they have been?"
With a sort of narrow exception (essentially the "car broke down at the worst possible moment and you've got a kid in a carseat so you can't get clear"), you generally have two categories to deal with: Suicides and Darwin candidates. Neither are deserving of any particular sympathy. Any sympathy I might have had for them evaporates when they go off and do this. To be clear, if I decide to go absent-mindedly walking down the tracks or try to beat a train, I'm deserving of the same mockery and lack of sympathy, full stop. If a friend does it, you can expect a very salty handling of the situation from me. Frankly, I think any outpouring of sympathy is (if anything) counterproductive. Please note that I think I've indicated that a thorough thrashing of folks causing "grade crossing incidents" would be healthy for some time, and I'm going to double down on that (and add that if the driver survives but a passenger dies, barring that narrow exception above I think manslaughter charges are appropriate).
Also, for the record, I've had to deal with several suicides in my family's social circle over the years. At this stage I suspect that if they did it by train, my reaction would go from "Oh, crap..." to "Oh, come on, are you kidding me?" And I don't think such shift in reaction is unreasonable, based on what I've seen as a result of this sort of thing over the years (e.g. the roughly monthly disruptions to Brightline, the harm to the crews, and so on and so forth). My reaction to a "grade crossing incident" is also likely to be a strange mix of mourning and annoyance at "How [bleep]ing stupid could they have been?"