Just because you are associated with a non-profit corporation that has a charter with the United States Congress (which is all that CAP is) does not in any way give you Law Enforcement powers. Nor are you UCMJ, so you do not have military powers. Be careful about presenting yourself as having either of those. Neither the military or law enforcement have a sense of humor about presenting yourself as being sworn, or trying to give the impression that you have those powers.
A MAJOR component of CAP is public relations, and you did a disservice to that by reacting the way you did. I am on-call 24/7, even during vacations, and there are many ways to be compliant with rules and requests of the crew and still be reachable via cellphone. Just put the thing on vibrate and stick it in your pocket. If the phone vibrates and you need to take a call, then excuse yourself to an area where you can take the call and not bother anybody. If you are on alert and have to answer a phone immediately, then let the conductor and the crew know ahead of time. Just because you might be called for an emergency doesn’t mean you have to act like you are in an emergency all of the time.
Do you think that the attendant, or anybody else that might have heard you, has a favorable impression of CAP after that? I’ve been on-call for 16 years, and it isn’t hard to be courteous to others about your cell phone use, yet make sure you are available.
While I agree with most of this, I have to ask with regards to:
If the phone vibrates and you need to take a call, then excuse yourself to an area where you can take the call and not bother anybody.
If I'm on the train and I run into someone I know, do we have to go "to an area where [we will] not bother anybody" before having a live conversation? :blink: :wacko:
IMHO, the touchstone for cell phone usage is live conversation. If you're in a time or place where having a live conversation would be rude -- theater, church, quiet car, middle of the night in a coach or sleeper -- then having a cell phone conversation would also be rude. Conversely, however, if you're in a time and place where having a live conversation is normal and acceptable, then taking or making a phone call is also acceptable so long as you're not louder than normal conversation.
Being courteous to others is a two-way street, and a train car is neither a cocktail party on one hand nor a monk's cell on the other. Unless it's the middle of the night or I'm in a quiet car, I shouldn't have to retreat to a vestibule because my phone rings.