Was the 1995 derailment the sabotage? I remember an episode of unsolved mysteries or something of that nature on FOX which mentioned one Sunset Limited being sabotaged. IIRC, they separated the track, but kept the electrical sensor connected so everything looked clear on the signal. It was an unfortuate, but unique case.
The fact is, odds are you won't be involved in a derailment. For those that were victims such as the one gentleman, there is very little we can say, because with such a tragic experience, nothing we can say will make it any less traumatic. Statistically people are more likely to be involved in automobile accidents, and we can't forget that those statistics are people. You have every right to be angry, upset, etc... but please don't blame and attack the members of this forum for the unfortunate series of events you experienced in and after the derailment. Theres nothing we've done, nor can do to change what happened, please don't fault us for what other individuals with cruel intentions have done. We come hear to express ourselves and escape the hardships we may or may not face outside.
For the rest of us, we don't expect to be involved in a derailment, because frankly if we looked at everything, much like this negatively, life wouldn't nearly mean as much. Yes, we do need to stop and realize what can and does happen, but we can't dwell on it...we have to go on enjoying what we do.