Let me ask a question of some of my seniors (I'm 53). Did you feel more "pampered" on some of the trains of the 50's and 60's than you do now?
Well sure, the surroundings were nicer for what ever reason and when you rode a road that took pride in its service you were treated like they really enjoyed your being there. It was typical of the parlor car attendant on the GM&O to bring you drinks or snacks for the diner without having to prod them into it. On detraining he always took a wide clothing brush and whisk any lint or foreign things off your cloths or coat. The diner was like a nice restaurant with the Mater D over looking every thing to see it was just so, they didn't make you feel like your taking up space because they had to move more prepaid passengers though like they do now. The food was real, not pre-made and of higher quality than now. In the sleepers the luggage was loaded and unloaded without your asking it to be done, it was part of the service. Shoes were shined over night for passengers. The lounges were plush and comfortable with more of a living room setting than a hospital waiting room with plastic chairs. The interiors were attractive and thoughtful though out the better trains. And the most important part was that passenger trains were the pride of the company and running on time was very important. I can recall many times the Panama Limited coming in to a station and stopping exactly on the minute it was due. The railroad tried very hard to make that so. If your traveled overnight and the train left at an odd time like near midnight you could board your sleeper and have a good nights rest before it left instead of boarding so late. The other thing I miss the most is that when you went to a station in any major city you could then take a train in any direction with easy connections to towns major an minor. I still think without a more expansive system rail will stay a lesser form of travel for many simply because they cant' get where they are wanting to go easily.