Sorry you had these problems with FNBO fraud prevention program; I'm in the same boat but even worse. I can't get into my new online account b/c I'm not "verified" and I'm not "verified" b/c FNBO won't accept my Google Voice number to send a code and says my cellphone number is "not associated" with my SSN so can't use that either. Only way I can get verified now is to fax notarized ID to the bank or visit my own bank and have them verify me by phone. Both involve in-person contact and I am still recovering from Covid so can't do that. Told all this to FNBO to no avail.I had similar problems, and I was a bit mad.
(1) BofA would message me about questionable charges and I could clear up the matter with a few keystrokes on my phone. I only found out FNBO flagged my card when charges etc. were rejected.
(2) I called yesterday to get the blockage removed and was assured it was. Then an auto-charge (for a subscription I'd really rather not lose) failed in the night. I had to call again this morning, and they assured me the matter is cleared now. We will see.
To both operators, I pointed out that, with the card changeover, hundreds of people are trying to update various websites with their new payment information and it would behoove their fraud dep't to override or rein in the algorithm if it was kicking out a bunch of verifications or validations in a row as suspicious.
Can't do anything online although they tell me they will accept my money. Meanwhile it all started because the two-factor authentication didn't work, and, you guessed it, they wouldn't let me talk to IT about this because I'm not "verified."
I hope I can test negative soon enough to deal with the next payment. Strangely, I did have access to the online account when I set it up on Sunday -- no verification required -- but when the two-factor authentication failed the next day I ended up locked out of everything.